Showing posts with label sex. Show all posts
Showing posts with label sex. Show all posts

Friday, August 8, 2014

US Research Implies Abstinence-Only Message of Section 377A Does Not Lead to Abstinence Behaviour, This Implies Section 377A Would Have No Deterrence Effect in Keeping in Check Homosexual-Related STDs and Hypothetical Sexual-Related 'Social Immorality'

(This is a copy of an email that I sent to the Prime Minister and the Members of Parliament about my request to amend Section 377A of the Penal Code.) 


Research reports from the United States have found that abstinence-only sex education does not lead to abstinence in sexual behaviour.

This implies that keeping Section 377A would not have an effect in keeping in check the rate of sexually transmitted diseases among homosexuals. This also implies that Section 377A would not have an effect in keeping in check any hypothetical sexual-related 'social immorality'.

People who assumed that Section 377A can keep in check any hypothetical 'social morality' would therefore be proven wrong.

Section 377A was recently mentioned in Court to have been enacted during colonial times to curb male prostitution long ago. This new research report would prove that even such a possible deterrence to curb male prostitution with abstinence would not have any resultant effect in the past. Male prostitution during that time could have dwindled due to other factors.

If people need to or are desperate to have sex for any reason, they will continue to do it out of need or desperation.

The better way to prevent any sexual-related diseases is through public education such as sex education and behaviour-related campaigns, and not through abstinence as seen in the keeping of Section 377A.


Abstinence-only education does not lead to abstinent behavior, UGA researchers find
http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2011/11/111129185925.htm

"States that prescribe abstinence-only sex education programs in public schools have significantly higher teenage pregnancy and birth rates than states with more comprehensive sex education programs, researchers from the University of Georgia have determined.

The researchers looked at teen pregnancy and birth data from 48 U.S. states to evaluate the effectiveness of those states' approaches to sex education, as prescribed by local laws and policies.

"Our analysis adds to the overwhelming evidence indicating that abstinence-only education does not reduce teen pregnancy rates," said Kathrin Stanger-Hall, assistant professor of plant biology and biological sciences in the Franklin College of Arts and Sciences."


My Concluding Thoughts:

Keeping Section 377A has no proven benefits but has been suggested to have more harm than good as in the case of higher increased rates of unprotected sex and STDs mentioned in the research reports.

I therefore propose the government to amend Section 377A so that it can start to impose safe-sex education for homosexuals as well as counselling. I propose the government to not grant any future requests for same-sex marriages and adoptions.

If the government really wants to do something about social health for homosexuals, it should consider removing the abstinence-related law of 377A and start to implement safe-sex education and counselling for homosexuals right away.

Homosexuals are also citizens of Singapore(even though they are in the minority), the government should do its best to ensure their well-being.

Wednesday, March 5, 2014

The Reason for Sexual Desire and Why There are Straights, Gays and Bisexuals

The Reason for Sexual Desire

A person's/soul's cause of sexual desire is actually based on 3 factors: its perception of another person's physical compatibility, its inability to perceive/imagine how it feels like to physically be as that person within that body, and its intense curiosity of how it feels like to be within that body.


The Reason for Heterosexual Attraction

A straight man with lots of dominating/masculine energy and lack of submissive/feminine energy would already have the ability to imagine being physically as another man, but he would have great inability to imagine how it feels like to physically be as a submissive/feminine woman, which fuels his intense physical curiosity for the woman's body. Because he perceives the submissive/passive/feminine energy from a woman to be compatible to function with his mostly dominating/masculine energy, he finds the woman to be physically(and mentally) compatible, this is why we often hear of how a partner can 'complete' another partner in a relationship. This also the same way for a straight woman's sexual attraction to a man. Straight couples function in a relationship of very contrasting domination/masculine with submissive/feminine qualities.


The Reason for Homosexuality

A gay man who is physically attracted to another gay man would find his physical body to be immensely compatible but is unable to imagine/perceive how it feels like to be as that person in that male body, which creates the excitement and deep desire to physically explore the other person's male body.

Because gay men have some qualities of dominating/masculine and submissive/feminine energies, they would find other gay men who also have both qualities to be compatible to them. Even though gay men are already in male bodies but because their existing bodies are either too physically effeminate or too physically masculine, they desire to imagine/perceive being in male bodies that are either more masculine/muscular or less masculine(effeminate) than theirs, so this explains why masculine/muscular gay men prefer effeminate partners, and why effeminate gay men prefer masculine/masculine partners.

If a gay man lacks the ability to imagine the quality of domination/masculinity, he might become the 'bottom'(the one that is fucked) to experience the dominating quality from his partner. If he lacks the ability to imagine the quality of submission/femininity, he might become the 'top'(the one who fucks) to experience the submissive quality from his partner.

Many males who take up bodybuilding have deep curiosity of being within a more masculine/muscular body, many of such curious males often have deep physical/sexual attraction to males.

Gay men would not feel physically/sexually attracted to women nor have intense curiosity of being in their female bodies because they can already imagine/perceive how it feels like to physically be as them in their female bodies, perhaps due to their submissive/feminine qualities that they already possess or they have lots of past life experiences of being women. So gay men would not have curiosity for female bodies but they would have deep curiosity for male bodies because they still have much difficulty imagining how it feels like to be within a male body.

This example for gay men also applies to gay/lesbian women.


The Reason for Transexuality

Some male transexuals who undergo sex change do so because they feel a deep relation to being within a female body, which might be due to lots of past life experiences of being in female bodies. They do not wish to venture into a type of compatible male-to-male body relationship but wish to revert back to being within a relationship that has more of a contrasting quality of female-with-male body relationship.


The Reason for Bisexuality

Bisexuals are those who lack the ability to imagine being physically in both male and female bodies, so they are deeply curious to explore both types of bodies in a physical/sexual way.


Sex is Not Always Necessary to Imagine Being Physically as Another Person

People who perceive the world superficially or are still functioning at a low level of frequency(perspective) and vibration(clarity) are those who need to use intimate sexual practices as a way to gain such perspective of being in another person's body. People who already have a higher frequency and vibration are more mentally advanced(psychic) and do not require sexual intimacy to imagine how it feels like to physically be as someone else, they are less superficial so they can connect to others in a deeply energetic manner without needing sexual intimacy to imagine how it physically feels like to be as them.


The Reason for Child Sex Pedophilia

The reason why there are pedophiles who desire to have sex with young children is because they feel the children bodies' to be very compatible to their own bodies. Because they have much difficulty imagining being in the child bodies(perhaps due to a dysfunctional childhood), they have deep curiosity for being within such child bodies. If they are desperate enough to fulfill such feelings of intense physical compatibility and intense curiosity through sex, then they would desire to have sex with children.